Social and Emotional Learning (SEL)
We are committed to the well-being of our students, staff, and families to create a safe and healthy learning environment.
Meet the Counselor
My name is Stephanie Haren (Ms. Stephanie) and I am grateful to be returning for my third year as the Counselor for Burton Valley Elementary. I was born in NYC, and grew up in Southern California. Since then I have lived in Oakland, Berkeley, NY and San Francisco. I now happily call Lafayette my home, where I live with my kids, Mateo & Paloma, and our dog, Oso. I love running, art, yoga and traveling. I have a passion for all things wellness, mental health and education. Each day I am energized by the children of BVE!
Education & Experience
I graduated from UC Berkeley with my BA in Psychology and Ethnic Studies. I later studied at Bank Street College of Education, earning an MS in Early Childhood Special Education and at Columbia University where I completed a Master’s degree in Social Work. I have been working with children, families, and teachers since 1996 and have worked in roles from classroom teacher, non-profit program director, mental health consultant, to teaching yoga to kids with special needs!
Philosophy
As a school counselor I take a holistic, systematic, proactive and reflective approach. I believe social emotional health is a foundation to all types of learning. I strive to make a welcoming environment, where every child feels safe, seen, heard and accepted.
Contact
Email: sharen@lafsd.org
Phone: 925-927-3550, ext.5020
RESOURCES FOR STUDENTS
Used at BVE - ASK YOUR BOBCATS!
Toolbox
These are Tools that reside inside us and help us develop strong social and emotional skills and meaningful, satisfying relationships. Bobcats learn about the 12 Tools through wonderful stories and literature, fun projects, role-plays and class discussions.
Resources for Parents
- Article - Modeling Coping Skills for Parents by Idaho Youth Ranch
- Article - How to Help Kids Cope When They get Upset by the Understood Team
- Generation Mindful - Practical offerings including items/posters to create a calm down corner at home.
- Making Social Emotional Learning Stick - A variety of resources for parents from book lists to trainings.
- Video - How to Raise Emotionally Intelligent Children by Lael Stone
Questions about SEL or Counseling at BVE?
Please contact: sharen@lafsd.org
